Natural Selection
When we see an odd couple – a beautiful wife with an ugly and insignificant husband – we immediately come to a conclusion that their marriage is a marriage of convenience. But if we suddenly find out that he is not wealthy, we keep guessing and asking, “What has she found in him?” and we finally arrive at a long-known thought about love being evil…
Why do beauties who have a wide choice and no psychological, sexual or financial problems, pay attention to partners who do not suit them at all? This happens because nature made such women not only beautiful but also smart and quick-witted. You should be able to choose the right man, especially if you are going to live a long and happy sexual life with him.
Carefully look at your future spouse bearing in mind the following facts:
Height
Sexy men are seldom tall. Pay special attention to their body proportions. Men with long legs are not very sexy. As for the hands and feet, the bigger they are the better.
Nose Shape
Nose is also a good indicator of male sexuality. It will tell you nothing about your partner’s penis size, but keep in mind that wide and mobile nostrils suggest sensuality. Nose crook (unless it is the result of fights in youth) suggests a big potential.
Hair Covering
The more hair your partner has on his body and face and the less hair he has on his head, the hungrier he is for sex. Scientists have found out that a lot of hair is directly related to high intelligence. And if the body is not only hairy but also well-developed, it means that your partner has higher levels of testosterone and, therefore, higher interest and skills to have sex. A lot of men have a medium level of hair on their body: thin chest hair, mid-abdomen hair and groin hair. Scottish psychologists assure that such men are not very good at sex. Hairless, weak and almost youthful chest states that a person is faithful and will be a good tutor for children. If a man removes hair on his body (in case he is not an athlete and his body hair does not prevent him from succeeding in sports), he might suffer from selfishness and behave like a naughty child when he gets old.
Beauty
Male beauty is a relative term for many women. This proves once again that women ‘get to the root of the matter’. Of course, sometimes you want to walk hand in hand with a handsome man with excellent muscles, weary eyes and shaggy bangs on a tanned forehead. Well, take such a walk! A handsome man who seems to have just come out from a magazine cover can be a great escort, but he is incapable of many things. He will selfishly keep himself busy in bed. You will have sex with him, not backwards. He will coquettishly move his muscular chest and shoulders for more kisses from you, and you will have nothing to do but watch his erection and help him get an orgasm if you try hard. Thus you would better leave a handsome Hollywood man for someone else. Why should you meet someone else’s whims if you have your own desires?
Clothing
Pay attention at his outfits. If your man wears comfortable and expensive clothes, he is self-confident and prefers comfort and physical pleasure. But if his outfits are provoking and over expensive, a man will only demonstrate his amazing merits to a woman in order to assert himself.
Odor
The smell plays a very important role in our sexual responses. Pay attention at your partner’s body odor.
If your man does not use any deodorant or cologne for your date, you should not wait for his attention. However, if your partner took a shower, used perfumes and was clean-shaven, he would do anything for you. If you find his body smell disgusting, you will unlikely enjoy his great qualities.
If your partner’s sweat smell makes you dizzy and makes you want to inhale it over and over again, this is your man, and you will enjoy having sex with him.
The Process of Eating
You should definitely watch your partner eating.
A man who is hastily swallowing pieces of food or picking his plate with disgust will act in bed the same way. If he orders a meal for both of you at once, you will have to rely on his taste in bed as well.
Size Does Matter
Usually the size of partners’ genitals has no significant effect on the degree of pleasure they get. A medium-sized penis is 10-12 cm in flaccid state reaching 15-18 cm at the time of an erection. The relaxed vaginal walls touch each other. But with the introduction of the penis the vagina walls expand and adapt to the size of it. The penis is wrapped by muscular walls, thus, a man with a small penis can please a woman.
If the penis is so small that it cannot contact with the vagina, or muscular walls are much expanded (for example, due to pregnancy), the partners will not feel each other, and this can lead to sexual dissatisfaction.
There are special exercise methods to contract and relax the vaginal and anus muscles for women with weakened muscles. Couples can also try sex positions which help to minimise the size of vagina, for example, such positions as ‘woman on top’ and ‘officers’ sex’ (a woman places her feet on man’s shoulders during a sexual intercourse). If this does not help you, you can undergo a plastic surgery. Phalloplasty is surgical procedure designed for men with a very small penis.
In case a penis is too big and vagina is too small, the sexual intercourse will be painful for a woman. In this situation you can try a sex position which does not reduce the size of vagina. This can be a ‘missionary’ position (a man is on top and woman’s legs are stretched out), ‘the man is behind’ position (woman’s legs are also stretched out), ‘standing’ position, etc. A man can also try to avoid withdrawing penis to the end. A woman can use hands to control the depth of a penis introduction. If a man cannot control the depth of a penis introduction all the time, a couple can use special restrictive rings.
Women Allergic to Men
We should also talk about sexual incompatibility due to female allergy to male seminal fluid.
Specific protein contained in male sperm can cause such side effects as a burning sensation in vagina, facial swelling, hives and even heart diseases. The cases of men being allergic to female vaginal secretions have not been observed yet. So it is best to change a partner in order to solve the problem. If a woman still wants to live with such a man, she and her partner should consult a doctor. Doctors can use concentrated plasma from seminal fluid as a vaccination that will improve the immune system of a woman allergic to the protein. Thus partners will be able to enjoy their relationship without compromising the woman’s health.
Loyalty
There are no absolutely negative or positive qualities in each of us. Each quality has its downside. Our drawbacks continue our accomplishments, and vice versa.
The union of two brilliant and gifted people often ends up in failure, stress and depression. Two captains are unlikely to bring one ship to a safe harbour, and two leaders in one family can spend many years fighting for the priority status and become enemies.
The union of two shy partners is not a better combination either. Each partner will try to shift the burden of leadership on the second half. No one would want to be the captain and take responsibility for a happy family life.
Couples who are like the ‘plus and minus’ ends of a magnet are much long-lived. However, you should not abuse this principle. If you have opposite opinions on each issue, if you feel good and cheerful while your partner is bored and sad, if you have nothing else in common except the physical attraction, your relationship will not last long.
The most favourable union of two people is the one in which partners have vital interests in common and the same views on major, global and principle issues in addition to sexual interest in each other.
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