
The problems of female orgasm did not exist in the past. Or it is better to say that both an orgasm and its absence was a personal matter of each woman.
Still the vision of a female body has radically changed since when this ‘optional’ (according to the sanctimonious moral) phenomenon was seriously studied by sexologists around the world.
Although there are still scientists who believe that female orgasm unlike male orgasm is an optional thing. Those women who experience satisfaction from a sexual intercourse without getting an orgasm agree with this statement.
Sexologists list four phases of a sexual intercourse: excitement, ‘plateau’, orgasm and resolution (or relaxation).
Orgasm is a qualitatively new state different from the usual strong excitation. All the energy accumulated during a sexual intercourse pours out in the form of involuntary muscular contractions. Short breath or its short delay, convulsive movements of the body or its fading, various sounds or lockjaw and biting of different objects are among the indirect signs of an orgasm. As you can see, the spectrum of female orgasm manifestations is very wide. Sometimes the manifestations are so weak that nobody except the woman herself can identify them.
Women experience more vibrant and imaginative impressions than men during an orgasm. Some women feel the heat in their genital area spreading throughout their body. Some women feel the strong vaginal muscle contractions; others get tingling sensations the waves of which cover their entire body from head to toes or vice versa. Sensations of the same woman may vary over time and depending on the situation.
Electrophysiological studies of female brain during orgasm have revealed changes in it similar to the seizures. This is why a lot of women are unable to control their actions while experiencing such turbulent emotions. They can scream, cry, curse, bite, scratch and even lose consciousness. If they suppress their emotions they will not get a full orgasm, and this can lead to neurosis and false frigidity.
Vaginal and extravaginal orgasms as well as their mixed forms are distinguished by place of origin. Clitoral, anal, oral orgasms and other unusual cases of main erogenous zone’s localization (for example, in the popliteal cavity) are types of extravaginal orgasms.
Mental orgasm, which can occur while watching an erotic movie, reading, daydreaming and dreaming etc., is distinguished by sexologists as a special type of an orgasm. About 45% of women experience clitoral orgasm. It was earlier believed that vaginal orgasm was the only real female orgasm. In physiological terms, any orgasm is real if it leads to a corresponding relaxation and satisfaction.
There is a very small rate of women who do not experience sexual arousal. Physiological or hormonal changes in their body are the reasons for this.
Anorgasmia

This phenomenon occurs when a woman feels both the desire and sexual arousal, but does not get a resolution. From a physiological point of view, each woman is capable of getting an orgasm (in there are no hormonal disorders) with the exception of rare cases of vaginismus and the size discrepancy in the couple genitals. According to statistics, about 40% to 70% of women experience an orgasm. About 10-20% of women do not experience an orgasm and sexual desire, they are frigid. This means that about 10-50% of women do not experience an orgasm due to the reasons other than physiological.
There are three types of anorgasmia:
1. A woman never experiences an orgasm herself but she gets psychological satisfaction from a sexual intercourse, giving pleasure to her partner and watching him getting an orgasm.
In this case a woman does not experience any discomfort and feels great. She has no violations in her sexual life and mental state.
2. A woman does not experience an orgasm with her partner but she gets it herself through self-stimulation in one way or another.
In this case, a woman often suffers from a psychological dissatisfaction. Besides, self-stimulation cannot fully compensate for the sex with a partner if she has experienced an orgasm during a sexual intercourse before (with the same or another man). Such women may develop neuroses and disorders in their sexual life up to a false frigidity.
If your partner’s misconduct is the reason of anorgasmia, you should tactfully explain to him what he must do in order to please his woman. Otherwise you should change your partner.
Female psychological problems can also cause anorgasmia. This includes stiffness, complexes, tightness, increased anxiety during a sexual intercourse, and various fears. In these cases you need to seek medical help from a sexologist or psychologist and not let your problems cause psychoneurotic reactions due to sexual dissatisfaction. This type of anorgasmia is the most dangerous and it essentially requires a correction.
3. A woman experiences physical satisfaction from a sexual intercourse with her partner and masturbation, but this pleasure has no prominent peak. Women usually describe this condition as a ‘sweet languor’.
If a woman is quite ok with this situation, if she gets a resolution and satisfaction, it can be assumed that she experiences a special kind of an orgasm. No treatment is required in this case.
Simulation of a Female Orgasm

According to sociological studies, up to 80% of women have pretended to achieve an orgasm at least once in their life. There are women who have never experienced an orgasm but succeeded in its imitation. Usually those women who get pleasure from a sexual intercourse and psychological pleasure from watching their partner achieving an orgasm act this way.
Young girls who are not familiar with what real orgasm is quite often imitate it. However, you should avoid the simulation in a relationship with your husband because your deception may be revealed in a while, and the later it happens the harder it will be to settle everything down (your husband’s subconscious will remember your lie). It is better to tactfully discuss your problems with your husband in this case or consult a sexologist.
Do not forget that an orgasm is very important for both partners. Female orgasm relaxes a man, gives him a feeling of manhood and delight. Imitation of an orgasm is not harmless for women. The blood flow to female genitals increases during sexual arousal, and if a woman does not get a full resolution, it can lead to blood stagnation and development of gynaecological diseases.
Constant dissatisfaction can be too much for a female psyche system. A woman becomes irritable and nervous which can result in neurosis.
Still most women imitate an orgasm only occasionally. Sexologists believe that women play a performance in bed because men have a complicated understanding of the nature of a female orgasm, women do not want to look frigid in the partner’s eyes and they care about male dignity. Achieving an orgasm is not a goal for most women. Many women are capable to live without an orgasm for a long time if they get enough attention, tenderness and affection. By playing along to their partners in bed, women pursue a good goal – they do not want to demean the dignity of their partner who was not that great at this particular moment. Women’s ability to get multiple orgasms in one sexual intercourse is the advantage of a female orgasm rather than a problem. About 30% of women are able to experience it. The main feature of a multiple orgasm can be described as follows: after passing the phase of excitement and staying at the plateau phase, a woman is able to experience a series of orgasms without phases of resolution and secondary sexual arousal.
Female ability to experience several spontaneous orgasms a day is not the same as a multiple orgasm. An orgasm can occur during a sexual intercourse, masturbation and mechanical friction (for example, clothes friction on the genitals) or shake in the public transport. A woman easily tunes on a sexual wave and is able to achieve orgasms many times a day in the most uncommon-for-sex situations.

Sexologists claim that hyper-orgasmia is the result of a failure of nerve reactions when female nerves and muscles tense causing an orgasm. Such a failure can be caused by fear or anxiety. If we look at the sexual receptivity as electric power grid we can say that a hyper-orgasmic woman gets a closure somewhere. In the normal situation human brain receives powerful erotic signals during a sexual arousal phase, and sexual arousal occurs step by step. All stages of a sexual process are under control in this case. If agents do not have anything to do with sex, for example, if this is fear or anxiety, the body ‘jumps’ over one of the stages, and an orgasm occurs spontaneously.
We should notice that sexually clamped and restrained women are rarely hyper-orgasmic. Hyper-orgasmia is a set of factors such as fear or anxiety along with sexually freedom. American researchers believe that hyper-orgasmic women have similar reactions to male. To support this statement we should add that these women have an excess level of testosterone and too much of male hormone DHT which increases the sensitivity of the clitoris in their body system.
If hyper-orgasmia causes discomfort and irritation, you should consult your doctor. He will prescribe you a course of anti-androgens (medication which reduces the levels of male hormones) which is usually prescribed along with anti-stress treatment with antidepressants.